Non-monogamy & polyamory
An honest, jargon-light gathering of definitions and essays on ethical non-monogamy. Covers polyamory, relationship anarchy, agreements, compersion, jealousy, and the logistics that nobody warns you about.
The Art of Asking for What You Want
Specificity is generosity. A practical guide to naming desire without losing your nerve.
Boundaries Are Not Walls
How to draw a line that keeps you in relationship rather than out of it.
The After-Talk: A Practical Guide
How to debrief after sex, conflict, or anything intense — without making it a performance review.
Negotiating Non-Monogamy: A First Conversation
A field guide to the conversation that actually starts the conversation.
The Five Love Languages, Honestly Revisited
A useful pop framework, its limits, and what to do with both.
Edging Toward Honesty
Why partial truths cost more than full ones — and a practical scale for ramping up.
Talking About Oral Sex: A Partner's Communication Guide
How to ask for what you want, hear what your partner wants, and update mid-stream — without making oral sex feel like a meeting.